Edible Fact!
The laws of attraction state that you attract what you put out into the universe. If you find yourself only attracting crazy, think about what you are putting out there. If you are a positive person with confidence and inner strength, then you will attract people who are like you or who want to be around people like you. If you are a negative person who only sees the bad, or thinks that failure is always inevitable, well then, expect that to be your world.
There so many factors that play a role in who you attract. There are the standard good looks, sense of humor, and ambition that will draw people in. But personality traits have an impact too.
So, when they say, not everyone is for everyone. It’s true and it’s okay for it to be true. In all honesty, you want to make sure your circle is the best for you and your growth.
Now if you all of sudden you look around and say ,“Crap! The people around me are so negative all the time! I don’t want the crazies anymore,” there’s good news. You can change that. Below are some suggestion (just note, I’m not certified beyond my own life experiences).
- Be more positive. Life can be very difficult and for some, more than others. But to change that, you must work on being more positive. And when shit hits the fan, as it always does, try to remain in the positive. I promise you will get through it, and get through it in a better mindset.
- Be in the now. I know I say this a lot, but it is so important to not focus on the past or the future. Being present makes you appreciate the present.
- Organize and clean. It is true a clean space that is not cluttered physically helps you mentally. You can then tackle more.
- Learn and let go. Holding onto things is not healthy. If or when someone has done you wrong, learn from it and let it go. This is something I’m still mastering. I learn, but I hold onto it. Not as a grudge, but as a building block to the wall I am building around you.
So, the next time you wonder why someone so average looking is so attractive to so many, think of what they may possess beyond their looks.